He Hasn’t Touched You in Months. You’re Not Broken. You’re Lonely.
You feel guilty for touching yourself. You feel guilty for wanting. But the real problem isn’t masturbation — it’s the silence that’s grown between you. This is for the woman who’s forgotten what it feels like to be wanted.
The sex talk I never got — and the one I’m determined to have with my daughter
My mother handed me a pad and changed the subject. I’m determined to do better. What a real, honest conversation about bodies and desire could look like for the next generation.
I’ve been fat my whole life and was told I should be grateful anyone wants to touch me. I’m done believing that.
From diet culture to dating apps to doctors who assume my health based on my weight — I’ve spent 35 years being told my body is a problem. It’s not. My body is the home I live in. And I’m done apologising.
He said “that thing is weird” and I wanted to disappear. How to handle it when your partner doesn’t get it.
I showed him what I was into. He looked at it like it was evidence in a crime scene. The shame was immediate and overwhelming. Here’s what I did next — and what I wish I’d known.
My mum found my toy drawer and the conversation that followed changed our relationship.
She was looking for a phone charger. She opened the wrong drawer. I wanted the floor to swallow me. Then she said something I will never forget.
Asian daughters and sexual silence — growing up in a culture that never said the word
Asian women sexual repression and silence. Cultural shame, generational trauma, breaking free. Reclaiming desire as an Asian daughter.
Grew up religious and still feel like sex is dirty? Me too. Here’s how I’m unlearning it.
Religious upbringing and sexual shame. Purity culture trauma recovery. How to unlearn the guilt and reclaim your body. Real healing guide.
Why do I feel disgusted after sex? Understanding post-coital dysphoria — and why it’s not your fault
Feel disgusted after sex? Post-coital dysphoria explained. Why sadness and guilt after intimacy is more common than you think. Psychology and biology of post-sex blues.